Acknowledge
there is an issue and identify the source or sources of negative energy.
The hardest
step is to break the build-up of negative energy. Avoid the yelling, the
fighting, and all those little emotions that eat away at us. Look at the big
picture, is what going on really that important that we risk harm from serious
negative entities. Sure, if you spouse is cheating, that is a valid excuse to
be angry and to fight and take a golf club to their car before you call a
lawyer. But if your spouse forgets to put the mail out, is that really killing
anyone?
Let go of
whatever is getting us hot under the collar. Someone cut you off in traffic?
Yeah, that’s what gets me mad. But don’t bring that anger home with you. Call
them a jerk in your head and move on. Don’t rehash the incident when you get
home – don’t stew in the corner thinking about knocking their teeth out or
telling them what you think of them. Let them deal with their inconsideration;
don’t let them bring you down. You are better than that!
Someone in the
office say something rotten to you? Don’t bring it home. Think to yourself that
they are trying to bring you down because of their own insecurity. Don’t let
them bug you, because that means they win. Let your home be a safe haven, don’t
bring those jerks home with you in your thoughts and your feelings.
Overall, take a
look around you. Realize how blessed we are. I know a parent of teenagers is
laughing at me right now. But remember those rebellious teenagers when they
were cute and cuddly and their only words were “Momma” and “Dadda”. Your spouse
drank out of the milk carton, kindly ask them to use a glass next time and move
on – realize that someone loves you. If your job is bothering you, you can look
for a new one – or more easily, think about how blessed you are to have a job,
in these conditions. There are many more people struggling to even feed their
family because they are unemployed.
Surround
yourself with what makes you happy, at peace, and calm. If you like flowers, always
have fresh-cut flowers in the house. If you like lady bugs collect them (within
reason - your spouse may get annoyed with ladybug curtains and ladybug salt
shakers). Keep pictures of family and friends and happy times. It sounds corny
– but it is something that can help brighten up an environment.
I’m not saying
to become a pushover and let others walk all over you and you just smile and
say “That’s okay”, because then the build-up will cause anyone to snap. Just
learn to pick your battles, be nicer to those around you, learn to forgive and
forget, realize what is important and what you have, and to work on being more
positive. When people do this, their success rate in removing nasty malevolent
spirits and negative entities is staggering.
Don’t let
emotions bottle up. Talk to your family, your closest friends, clergy member,
and therapist (if applicable). Just talking helps relieve that pressure, and
added meaningful words of encouragement help.
I realize that
this is the most difficult task. We are all human and we are all prone to
varying emotion. But if there is a problem where something has invaded your
home and causing your life to be Hell – there is no option but to remove your
negative energy if you want the negative entity to leave.
You can also
pray – it doesn’t hurt. As long as you have faith, it can work. See our
protection prayers we have compiled for use.
Now, about that
jerk that cut you off in traffic…. If you get rid of your negative
energy, maybe your unwelcome visitor will sense his/her hostilities and force
them to change! For the cheating spouse, he/she can get the negative
entity in the settlement.
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